Friday, October 21, 2011


Hello ladies it's been awhile. The constant moving and shaking of life just gets in the way of breathing at a normal pace at times. My thoughts today is about the value of women. As I observe day in and day out the movement and conversation of women. I can't help but to giggle. We are all so different and colorful in our looks,thoughts, our expressions, verbiage and opinion. Where does the image of ourselves come from? Some may say their mother. Others may say media or lack of certain components can shape us as women as well. The men we choose as mates can have a huge effect on how we view ourselves at time. The men in our lives that we declare our love for; how does he not value all of what you have to offer. The woman that sacrificed her body to extend the man's legacy. How does he value you when he dismisses your thoughts and opinions? To often we find ourselves in these relationships that we invest in only to wake up and not recognize ourselves anymore. How does that happen? How does the man WE CHOSE who have broken our heart;cause us from ever letting our hearts love again; when the very fiber of our makeup is encompassed around LOVE. We allow the brokenness to do so much damage. We own the pain to the point it cripples us in our finances, dreams, sexuality, self esteem, and worst our worth!! It is time to look mirror and have a heart to heart talk with the soul in you. You know the one closest to the Divine, God, Allah, Yahweh, Jehovah and Jesus. There is that voice in you that tries to remind you how great you were together before you were coerced into the lies about your power and your worth. Tell the voice how sorry you are and how much you miss her. Tell her that this was not the plan and it is NEVER NEVER NEVER to late to change the situation. You may be afraid to make a move but it is pushing through the fear that provides growth and success. Don't be enslaved in your mind. Lets go to mental and emotional battle to reclaim who we are. That means every time your mind says I can't do this or you are not good enough, or pretty enough, you can't lose the weight, your not intelligent enough, I want you to replace it with I am a child of God heir to his thrown through him I can accomplish anything. Say it over and over until you believe it. Make this your new truth from now on. You are enough and let me be the first to say with my heart I LOVE YOU and ALL that YOU STAND FOR!!!!! Know that I am an ADVOCATE FOR YOU MY SISTER!! WE are CITIZENS of the HUMAN RACE!!!! Remember you are contributors of mother earth..RECLAIM!!

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Let live on purpose!!!!

Hello my beautiful sisters!! I truly hope you have had an awesome week. Ladies it is time to start living the life you've imagine. What is holding you back? We have the right to have the vision and set forth a constructive plan to achieve it. One of the greatest myths today is that we are entitled to a great life-that some how, somewhere, someone(certainly not us) is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness,exciting career options, nurturing family time,and blissful personal relationships simply because we exist.
But the real truth is that there is only one person responsible for the quality of life you live. That person is you!!!
If you want to be successful you have to take 100% responsibility for everything that you experience in your life. That includes the level of your achievements, the results you produce, your income, your debts, your feelings-everything!
This is not easy. In fact most or us have been conditioned to blame something or someone outside of ourselves for the parts of our life we don't like. Own the YOU in YOU!!! Be your biggest cheerleader. Also be prepared to face the TRUTH about your circumstances. We must take personal responsibility.You cannot change the circumstances,seasons,or the wind,but you can change yourself!! Never let people talk you out of your treasures. You were born with the tools; its about maneuvering it. If you have positive people around, lean on them to help and hold you accountable to your dreams. If not that ok too. You can push yourself through the hard work. Max Lucado said" You were deliberately planned,specifically gifted, and lovingly position on earth by the Master Craftsman"!! Believe it.. Let's do it. Let's live on purpose. I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Time to get our money STRAIGHT!!!

More than ever we are in a society that is feeding us the constant news of recession. During this hard and maybe even impossible time we need to prepare our mind for financial success. This is the time to step out on faith and trust your instincts. What are your gifts? Not what others have as gifts but, yours exclusively. It may be something you take for granted like organizing, cooking, losing weight (exercising), talking or reading. What ever your hobby is that you love to do. That you would do  for free. It is time to tap into it. I love to write and talk to people about empowering themselves. So I wrote a blog to empower women. You never know where your fortune lies. Get online do your research; ask question and most importantly don't look for affirmation. YOU ARE ALL THE AFFIRMATION YOU NEED!!!! TRUST IN the GIFT in YOU!!! TRUST YOU!!!!!!!!!! I cannot tell you how many times we let other people's opinions talk us out of our future destined for us. It is sad! You should be your biggest cheerleader. If you have other to cheer for you than great. If not that is ok. What belongs to you cannot be duplicated. It is your gift especially assigned to you. Don't waste it. It is never too late. Just think outside the box. Once you do that it is time to think of how it can make a profit for you. On your mark, get set now GO!! I cannot wait to receive the comments on what you discovered. Good luck and have a fun time rediscovering your heart's joy!!

Monday, January 24, 2011

What is Emotional Health????

Many people see their emotional state with resignation. They accept their short comings as their truth. They say " this is just the way I am. " or " It doesn't get any better than this." Simply believing that any emotional damage that has taken place is to be suppressed and accepted. Some believe that only wealthy people can afford professional help to sort out the pain that has cause a sphere of never ending stories. Also, many resort to spirituality as the only source of hope to change their situation by their faith. I believe the definition of emotional health is:

"Having TOTAL peace about who you are, what you are doing, and where you are going, both individually, and in relationship to those around you."

I ask you today what is emotional health to you and how do you obtain it?

Thursday, January 13, 2011


Welcome to a blog that celebrates YOU the WOMEN of every walk of life. The Sisterhood of Color Blind Women.

Sisterhood: 1. An organization of women with a common interest, as for social, charitable, business, or political purposes. 2.Congenial relationship or companionship among women; mutual female esteem, concern, support etc... 3. Usually, the sisterhood, the community or network of women who participates in or support feminism.

As I look up the definition of sisterhood I am thinking to myself what will this gathering of women mean to one another. I am more than excited to congregate with all of you and see how different we are and what walk of life we have come from. I really know and understand the importance of support and friendship. There is something so powerful about women coming together assertively to uplift one another. Some of you are single, single with children, married, married with children and some are retired and have been there and done it all. (We love you!!) Imagine all the advice and wisdom to pass along. Imagine all the recipes for food, sickness remedies, love, patience, and understanding that could be obtained .This is clearly not place to throw on airs and flex muscles but rather a place to let your hair down and be girls again in the dorm room after cramming for finals. I invite you today to invest in yourself by investing in one another. Let us do inventory of ourselves and examine what we need and want this blog to mean to us. I thought it would only make sense to have each woman write in the comment space their opinion and perception of women and lets begin the vent session. This way we can filter and re-establish what is our birth right: intuition, nurturing love, strength, confidence, nourishment of the soul and TRUST. Ladies we will have culture, pain, happiness and a plethora of very informative information. Shall we? Let's begin our journey in being Color Blind Women of the women race.